Rennie Holland
Mother. Founder. Alcohol free since 2019.
I'm Rennie. Based in Sydney, raising three children, and building the thing you're looking at.
High Net Woman began with a single reframe, the one that changed my life: you are the asset.
Not your job, not your partner, not your bank balance. You. Self worth is the new currency, and everything here is built on that one idea.
the short version
For about twenty years, alcohol was how I managed a busy, stressful and complicated life. I was high-functioning: I worked, I built businesses, I mothered, I was the fun one holding it all together. From the outside, fine. On the inside, running on survival mode and a hope that never quite arrived.
In 2019, at thirty-four, I put everything down and flew to a rehab in Thailand. And in a room full of women whose stories sounded like mine, two things happened that changed the direction of my life.
Someone asked me to name my values, and I sat there with no answer. Not because I didn't have any, but because I'd been surviving for so long I had never once stopped to ask what I actually wanted my life to stand for.
And a counsellor gave me the sentence I now hand to every woman I work with: the things I had spent years calling character flaws were simply skills I had never learned. I wasn't broken. I was unfinished. And anything unfinished can still be built.
THE TURNING POINt
I came home sober and started building, properly, for the first time in my life.
My family. My confidence. My health. A vision with my own name on it. And eventually a brand called High Net Woman that has reached hundreds of thousands of women around the world. No business degree, nobody showing me how. Just sobriety, three kids, and the slow realisation that I had always been the asset. I just hadn't known it.
Sobriety stopped feeling like something I was holding onto, and started feeling like the ground beneath everything beautiful in my life. That's what I want you to know is possible. Not the white-knuckle version. This version.
THE rebuild
Here's what I know now: rehab didn't change my life. It showed me where to start.
What actually changed my life was what came after: the decisions I began making every single day, and the habits I built around them. For most of my life I had never given either a moment's thought. I was living on autopilot, running patterns I never consciously chose. Sobriety was the first time I chose, deliberately, daily. And that, it turns out, is the entire work. Not one big dramatic moment. Thousands of small, chosen ones.
Which means it can be learned by any woman, anywhere, one decision at a time. It doesn't need three months away or a five-figure price tag. So I built High Net Woman: the curriculum I never had, made into something I can hand to you. Practical, beautiful, honest. Never a lecture. Identity, values, self-worth, vision, action, in that order, because you cannot build on ground you don't trust.
And wherever you're standing, there's a place here for you. If you're still wondering about your relationship with alcohol, the free community is yours: no labels, no pressure, no entry requirements, and me in there every week. And if the drink is already behind you and you're ready to build what comes next, that's where my work begins.
I am not the exception, and neither are you.
You are not behind. You are awake.
WHY HIGH NET WOMAN EXISTS
READY FOR WHAT COMES NEXT?
The Butterfly Effect is my 90-day metamorphosis for alcohol-free women: a small, women-only cohort rebuilding identity, self-worth, habits and direction, live sessions with me every week. Ninety days, three transformations, one trajectory change.
Your first 90 days without alcohol was the wingbeat. This is the wings.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE HIGH NET?
People assume the name is about money. High net worth: the woman with the portfolio, the property, the handbag that costs more than a holiday. It was never about that. High net means something simpler and much harder to buy: the value is in you. Not in your job title, not in your relationship, not in your bank balance, and not in how well you perform being fine. You. The asset underneath all of it.
I spent twenty years treating myself like a liability, something to be managed, quieted, poured on top of. When you believe you're the problem, you spend your life trying to escape yourself, and the tool barely matters: wine, work, food, the endless renovation of your own body. The belief underneath is the same. What I eventually learned is that the drinking was never the problem. It was the strategy, the best one I had for surviving a self-worth deficit I'd never stopped long enough to name.
Build the self-worth, and the wine loses its job. That's the entire premise. And here's the part they don't put on the posters: self-worth compounds exactly the way money does. Slowly, then suddenly. Every evening you keep a promise to yourself that nobody else even knows about, the balance grows. One day you realise you trust yourself, you want things again, and you believe you're allowed to want them.
That is being high net: a woman whose sense of her own value doesn't depend on anything that can be taken from her.
Self worth is the new currency. You are the asset. You have always been the asset.